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Re: sorry

PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 6:57 pm
by PrudenceGemini
Oh god it's horrible how death affects people, i remember a guy who was like a grandad to me died i was so sad but it's nothing compared to how you two must feel.

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 7:58 pm
by lilmisshalliwell
No it's not nice, but what we have to remember is that they not in any pain anymore. That thought is what keeps me going (and my babies of course)

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 9:19 am
by lilmisshalliwell
Well thought i'd update you guys.... yesterday morning my grandma (my grandads second wife) died, I had prepared myself, so there wasn't as much shock this time. I'm in two minds as to how I feel to be honest, I didn't know her that well, hadn't seen her for years, as she lived almost 500 miles away. And after learning of how nasty she was, (over the years she accused and badmouthed all of us grandkids, accused me of stealing from my grampa, which i'd never do, and accused me of being a prostitute, and that my babies daddies weren't my babies daddies)i'm not sure if i'm just numb or just don't care. I won't be going to her funeral, but will be sending some flowers, at least i'm not holding a grudge. Just thought i'd let you guys know....you have gotten me through so much, so thank you :)

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:14 am
by PrudenceGemini
Sorry to hear that, she sounds like my grandma aswell, she called me a vindictive b**** when i was 9 for no reason :lol: funny looking back on it now, it's good to know this site and the people on it have got you through everything :D

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 12:13 pm
by lilmisshalliwell
PrudenceGemini wrote:Sorry to hear that, she sounds like my grandma aswell, she called me a vindictive b**** when i was 9 for no reason :lol: funny looking back on it now, it's good to know this site and the people on it have got you through everything :D



yea this place is like my second home, i love everyone of my friends on here, and many of them are on my facebook too, so even when i'm not on here, i keep in touch with them. Sometimes a few kind words are all you need to hear and the guys here are fantastic for that, Dianna is a star for bringing so many good people together and making a family :)

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:19 pm
by PrudenceGemini
This place is like my FIRST home :lol: yeah it's awesome, and i love the people on here too! In the few months i've been on here i've gone through some stuff and this site is a huge help!
We're the 'Shannatic' family, i'm 'PrudenceGemini Shannatic', you're 'LilMissHalliwell Shannatic' it's all good :D

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 6:27 pm
by lilmisshalliwell
lol, the reason i say this is my second home is because my children and hubby will always be my first home. and yea i so totally am a shannatic hehe.

Re: sorry

PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 9:56 pm
by Jeanny1990
lilmisshalliwell wrote:I'm really sorry for you loss hun, Yea it is hard, some nights i can't help but cry, but i have my faith and i'm sure he's watching over me, smiling at me. He was a wonderful man, as i'm sure your grampa, uncle, and your grandma and friend was. The pain is slowly easing as i Know he's pain free now, and he went peacefully in his sleep. I've started writing again, (check out my fan fic Lost family woes 2) that always takes my mind of things..... My grandma has only a few days left to live aswell at the moment so i'm bracing myself to go through it all again :~(



Hey Hun,
I know what you mean, I cry in the night often because the death of my grandparents, my uncle, my friend and sometimes because of my father...My father died years ago, I was little but I loved him and because of him I loved San Francisco because we lived there with and when I´m there it´s sometimes hard for me...
I read your FanFic and i like it...