Hey hun, I hope things are ok with you.
Living with mothers can be frustrating at times (as much as I love mine, I don't miss living with her) and often it seems as though they expect a lot from us. Usually though, they just want help around the house because they work during the day (night, or whatever hours they work) and they can't keep on top of everything that needs to be done. From their point of view, it seems like the kids should do the things around the house because they have to go to work. Unfortunately, this can be tough when they really expect too much. They also need to remember that their kids should be entitled to some free time of their own.
*squishy hugs*