Others have mentioned getting a hobby, relaxing... etc. That's the what... here's the WHY: If you aren't happy with you, no one else will be happy with you, either.
Desperation is seldom an aphrodisiac, except to the predatory types who make your life a wreck and your bank account a distant memory. That type LOVES a desperate man. After a few of those, you tend to get turned off all together toward women. Then you just wind up being a bitter old misogynist like... er... someone I once knew.
So, go out and get a life... quite soon, someone will come along and want to share it with you.
SOME PEOPLE ARE LIKE SLINKIES; NOT REALLY GOOD FOR ANYTHING BUT THEY BRING A SMILE TO YOUR FACE WHEN PUSHED DOWN THE STAIRS.