Update fo you all

[charmednpruefan]

thanks everyone!

[honda200]

You know when you mentioned backing of some from your frends , it reminded me of a time when i didnt back of with a freind i may have gotten a little prechy you know saying something like (what are you doing or you shoudnt be careing on this or that way )so needless to i got a pit a earfull that night ... a.. it was a party situaton basiclly i got the who are you my mother speech so from that time on insead of being in her fase at partys witch is were i was most consernd for her with drinking and all i just let be let her have fun but i was allways near by .Keped a eye out for her .Beleave me i saw the sun come up more then a few times cause she just woudnt pack it in (crash) and she always told me she apreshated knowing she had a freind watching out for her just in case .Oh by the way awer freindship is 20 years strong so your dicision to back off a little, just may be the right one and long lasting freindships you may have.Man its cold in here its 12;30 am i need some soup and check the fire burr.

[charmednpruefan]

Thanks Honda. I tend to preach a lot too, so that's one of the reasons I'm backing off a little. Of course, if they get into the situations they are headed for, I don't know that I can. They are life-or-death things, but if that comes, then I will get a counselor involved or something. I'm not trying to handle this on my own again.

Love,
Jill

[honda200]

sounds like a good plan

[KiwiGirl]

thats great to hear