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I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:40 pm
by thorn
Okay, this is sort of a sad subject but I'm at the end of my rope and I need advice. I have great experience in dealing with depression...including going thru it for three years myself, a suicide attempt and helping others get thru it but I don't know what to say now. My boyfriend of four months is severely depressed and fights me tooth and nail anytime I try to inject a positive thought into his head. He tried to tell me I can't help him and I said that I once helped someone who attempted suicide several times daily. He lied to me and said that he does the same...yet he doesn't have a mark on him anywhere. I got thru to him for a little bit last night but then his depressed side realized it and shut me out. Can ANYONE whose good at giving advice HELP ME!! I love him and everything in me is screaming for me to help somehow.

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 1:41 am
by thorn
Ah, and that's something that I've overlooked that I should have realized. I was the same way. lol. I thank you for your advice Chuckles.

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:05 am
by thorn
Well, the advice worked and he seems at least a little happier with just my support already. Image

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:09 am
by shannenzbitch

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:16 am
by thorn
You know I've been known as a wise one myself but I can only take so much.lol. anywho, thank you both. Image

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Tue Mar 24, 2009 4:28 pm
by littlemissbad
i have delt with depresstion in my family before now. and the best thing you can to hun, is to give him space.

keep close to him from a distance if that makes sence. and als there are lots of advice sites on the web that i hope you can use.

take care and be strong. xoox Image

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Wed Mar 25, 2009 12:51 am
by thorn
yes, it does make sense...and thank you too for your thoughts and advice. Image

I'm desperate!!

PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 1:47 am
by thorn
Well bad news. Image My bf's uncle died and he went over the edge after that. I found out a few minutes ago that he tried to kill himself for real this time. He's in the hospital on life support. Image Image Image Image Image Image Image