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Postby Mercedes-Doherty » Thu May 18, 2006 4:08 pm

you can send pms to me when I want to my likes that they write to me
MerceAndShannen Dianna, may can you reply to my recently PM that i sent?thanks!
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Postby ronny » Thu May 18, 2006 6:52 pm

Trust yourself, and be there for you mom, coz she the bestfriend that you could ever ask for. I dont have words, but i had a tear ( iam like ya ) if you wanna talk sweetie PM me i be there for you anytime kk, dont worry i will be not botherd talking to you.
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Postby Prudence#1 » Tue May 23, 2006 2:08 pm

The most important thing is to trust in youself, and I say as some other here has said I rather have a boring life then a life full off complecations, Im sorry about your friend, the missing and pain wont go away but it will get better. I still miss my granparents especially my granfather on my moms side sense he died so resently, he died 5 years ago and I was very close to him, for me it has helped writing poems about him. If you ever want to talk then Im here
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Postby shandofan1 » Tue May 23, 2006 11:07 pm

PrueFan101 wrote:i mean, now im really hungry but i dnt wanna eat


hey....ok....so ive never lost any of my friends....and i wont even say that i can immagine how bad it must be for you....cause im pretty sure that if **god forbid** that ever happened to me...i would apsolutly HATE it if ppl were always comin up to me n saying "i know how you feel"...they dont...and even ppl who lost ppl dont kno cause for every person it is diffrent...but know that we are always here for you to talk!

I do kno that you are hurting tho...but think about this...you friend would still want you to live your life and be happy...... starving yourself is NOT the way to go....a couple of year ago my best friend suffered from really bad anorexia.....she started not so bad missing a meal once in a while....but then she stopped eating compleatly...and so got soooo thin....honestly I was TERRIFIED for her...because she didnt even realize what she was doing to herself.....finally at my bday party everyone got in a huge fight and it ended up pretty much us two screeming at each other...to sum it up for you it was her saying that i didnt understand how hard it was for her....because she still felt fat
well (ive always had a problem saying the 1st thing that pops into my mind....) and so that is what i did...and let me tell you i still remember what i said "hayley, I may not get it...but you are going to end up killing youself..and i dont want to lose you."

Anyways she went to see an eating theripist and now shes better...but even though she didnt die...i still felt like i lost her.....cause we arent really friends anymroe....sometimes it is the hardest thing that you can do to tell a best friend or any friend that what they are doing will hurt them...but it is also the best for them....so now im gonna say this again...you need to eat....it is nessasary and you WILL hurt yourself if you dont...ive studied all eating disorders...and this is what happens

you stop eating but your subconcious convinces you that you havent and that you still arnt skiny....even if you are skin and bones......

dont do that to yourself....trust me...you dont want that to happen to you..

you may not even think that you have an eating disorder...but hunny if your not eating then you do....no matter how small or large scale it is you still have one! dont do that to yourself

I hope you feel better! xoxo Mia

ps PM me sometime ok...?
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Postby prue411 » Thu May 25, 2006 9:49 am

Thanks Mia!

Im sorry about your friend and your bday!! I will PM you some time Image I have been eating more than I was now. At least 3-4 meals a week. Thanks for all your advice Image
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Postby ronny » Thu May 25, 2006 10:26 am

It happens to me too... And its when its hot or when iam sad or gonna do something the other day. Sleep well, but talk to your doctors and think why you cant sleep.

It happened to me when i was going to start the secondry first year,wake up every hour which i went school sad, and tired.
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Postby prue411 » Thu May 25, 2006 10:41 am

Well, I got tablets for my sleeping but they dont seem to work. I knw i have failed my exams because i didnt sleep at all the night before and i almost fell asleep in the middle of them.
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Postby kiki » Thu May 25, 2006 11:06 am

im sure youll do great....and theyre not important exams r they ur only 12 so theyre not even SAT's or GCSE's
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Postby shandofan1 » Thu May 25, 2006 9:31 pm

ya im sure ull do fine....n im glad that ur feeling better n eating n sleeping more!
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Postby prue411 » Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:55 pm

Thanks for the advice everyone. I did ok in my exams but all the marks were a little bad. At least I passed em all Image

I am feeling really low at the moment, and suicide has now crossed my mind a few times. I don't know why but I am really annoyed with everyone lately.
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