by korilee » Mon Mar 27, 2006 12:04 am
Listen up, Baby girl. Losing anyone in your life can be a devastation that you will never get over. It will subside, but never goes away, which is good. Special friends are one of the joys in life that God has given to us. Don't let this keep you from finding that next special person in your life, whether it is another girlfriend or boy friend or future husband. From what I've read, it's been at least a year since she passed and you're still having problems. Sounds like she was a very good friend. Try this; I'm sure in the years you were friends there were pictures taken of the two of you together. Start a scrapbook or even a collage of pictures that you can hang on your wall and look at every day to remember the good things that happened when the picture was taken. She will always be there for you when you need her. Something she has said to you, a piece of advice, something that made you laugh, whatever it is, will always be there when you need it most. The funny thing is, it will sneak up on you and you will actually laugh out loud when you remember.
As for your mom, talk to the doctor or surgeon who will be performing the operation. Ask you mom to allow them to talk to you and walk you through what is going to happen during the surgery and what might happen. Once you know, and if you believe in God, just start praying every day that every thing will work out in the end. And remember to let us know, so we can do the same here. God has a plan for all of us, and I don't believe that yours is to leave this world this young. Look at it this way, and I'm sorry if it sounds morbid, but what if the surgery is to be a great success and you decide everything is too much for you to handle and you give up and are gone? What makes you think your mom will now fight for her life during the surgery? Half the battle is knowing you have something to fight for and baby girl, you are your moms reason. Please remember we are all here for you. Keep us informed every chance you get. I'll already be praying for you and your mom. I don't know you very well yet, but remember we all love you here.
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korilee on Mon Mar 27, 2006 12:06 am, edited 1 time in total.